Why do People Misbehave ?
People’s Misbehaviour is unpredictable. Is there anyone out there who can guarantee us that our parent scold us because they enjoy scolding everyone or is there any parent who accepts that he/she doesn’t love his/her child and hence they scold them always? We all know deep inside our heart that what our parents do is for our good and every parent also is clear about one thing in mind that he/she wants to see a great future personality in their child. And they think that scolding will help them overcome their mistakes/problems. But once again we are trying to use the energy of negativity to create something positive.
Let’s for now leave the topic of parents. Let us think about any person. Why do people misbehave to anyone? Be it their own dear and near ones or be it with any person who has any kind of involvement in their life. We may have seen a lot of people around us who gets angry too quickly for no reason. But we never tried to sort out why the person does this always? We say that it’s there ego/attitude that has made them like that but in reality they are too disturbed inside. We love people who have got a nice personality and a nice behaviour but in originality the people who are always angry or disturbed are the people who are in need of love. They behave in that manner because unknowingly they want attention from everyone. As they don’t get loved they find it a good way to make people realise their importance.
Keeping our mind stable and instead of arguing, trying to love the person who made us angry is something that will need practice but whatever be it, we can’t deny the truth. Take a simple case of an alcoholic person, whatever he says we don’t mind him because we know he is out of his mind. Similarly look at every misbehaving person as an alcoholic person. Here the difference is only about the type of alcohol. There it was ethanol (ethyl + alcohol) and here is it depressanol (depression + alcohol). Just try for once today. Instead of getting into argument stay calm at that moment and when the person is back to normal love them as much as they deserve, I’m sure relationships will get better because I have personally tried it . Good thing comes only to those who deserve it.
I wish from now everyone will look at poeple’s misbehaviour with a different eye. PEACE.