Who is the reason behind my Pain ?
Inner Pain is something we cannot show to the outside world. The following article gives you a brief description of what we feel inside and how to solve it.
Psychological Aspect of Pain
Most of us must have heard the story of Lord Buddha where he asks a person to bring a handful of mustard seeds from a house where sadness has never entered. And the person realised after a while that this task is impossible. But the million dollar question is why everyone has some reason or the other for being sad? Is there no way to be happy forever? Today everyone claims that “he insulted me” or “why did she hurt me?” But is it correct for us to blame other people for the hurt we feel? Or there’s another way of looking at the situation?
Our Own Experience
Realise a very simple fact for a minute. Consider any previous experiences of your life and imagine for a second, if the same sentence/behaviour you would have got from a stranger then did you have felt the same pain that you went through? Absolutely not, then what actually is the element that differentiates a stranger from our beloved ones? A funny way to answer this would be strangers don’t spend time with us that’s why they are strangers. But actually the difference is the way we look at them. We give them the right to hurt us. So actually we are responsible for our pain no one else because if we wouldn’t have given them the right to hurt us they really can’t hurt us.
Definition of Love
Many people think that if we don’t give this much of importance to our dear and near one’s then we don’t love them or if they are doing this to us then they don’t love us anymore. But ask your heart just once….. How can giving pain or getting hurt can ever define LOVE? Hope the Reason behind your pain was clear after you read this article.