I am Right, You are Wrong !
“I am right you are wrong” this is such a statement which we merely use in our life but we always try to prove it with our action. Even if we don’t show off, but deep inside our heart we believe that we are correct and everyone else is wrong. And as everyone starts thinking similarly in this manner, we are very much towards the way of creating a world where everyone will try to establish his/her fact without listening to the other person’s point of view.
REAL LIFE EXAMPLE
Wait a minute, does that means we should not fight for our rights? Then it means none of us are right? Surely not, the reality is everyone is right but from his/her own point of view. For example today most of the people buy a new dress not because it suits there taste but he/she will get appreciation from everyone else in the world. And suddenly after getting appreciation from 4 people if the fifth person says that “what kind of a dress are you wearing? It is so dull.” Then the very next moment if the person is too important in our life, we lose the enjoyment/happiness we were getting due to that beautiful dress or else if that person is not so important we will start criticising him/her. For example we will say like “he/she don’t have any sense of fashion” or like “he/she is jealous of me.” Both of the statement may be correct but reality is the dress is beautiful and will always be beautiful for you but it’s his/her point of view that it is not a good dress. That doesn’t means that it is not good. Both of us are correct. Similarly in any argument both the persons are always correct. But we don’t accept it and we don’t let it go until the final result of the argument is in our favour.
DO WE HAVE A SOLUTION?
Then what exactly we should do? Is it even possible to do something so ideal, where no one will fight with someone in this world? If I say that yes it is possible and many of us have been doing it also. Just take the case of any corporate meeting. May be a meeting of board of directors where everyone comes from a different background with a different idea and point of view to solve the problem. But no one tries to win over the other because it’s the basic essence of any Group Discussion/ meeting that we have to listen to everyone with patience and keep our point of view in front of them. And as a result the meeting ends with a nice conclusion and a better solution which most of the time none of them could have thought alone. Then if we can do it in our job then why can’t we do it in our personal life. Just because we get salary for it, it doesn’t make sense we won’t treat everyone equally. At the end of the day everyone live this life to be happy and if only incorporating these small values into our life can make us happy then why can’t we try? Success consists of going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm – Winston Churchill. And success in relationship can create a beautiful life for sure. Hope from now onwards you won’t say “I am right and You are…